7 common mistakes in our personality

 Successful people learn from their mistakes and mould them as stepping stones to achieve success in life. Experience is the greatest master in life. One can gain experience from failures only which occur due to mistakes. 7 Common mistakes in our Personality: 1. The delusion: The individual’s advancement should be made by crushing down the others. But it is a wrong notion. 2. The tendency to worry unnecessarily about the things that can’t be changed or corrected. We can‘t make the dog’s tail straight. 3. Unnecessary arguments: Insisting that a thing is impossible, because we ourselves cannot accomplish it. Nothing is impossible in this world. 4. Short sighted look: Refusing to set aside trivial things, so that important things may be accomplished. 5. Mentality of ‘’I know everything’’: They are of the habit of neglecting development and refinement of the mind and not acquiring the habit of reading and study. 6. Attempting to compel others to do those things which they do not like to do. 7. Interfering in others affairs: It is a bad habit to put our fingers in other people’s personal affairs, without their formal request.  If you wish success in life, you need: 1. Perseverance—your bosom friend.  2. Experience…..Your wise counsel.  3. Caution….. your eider brother.  4. Hope….. Your guardian genius. To err is human; to correct is divine.   … [Read more...]

Art of Living by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

 Swamiji says-usually we heard the following statements from the people as: I, My life, what I achieved, my name and my fame. Does the above statement have any real meaning? Remember one thing: Our life is of very short duration on this earth. Many people lived here before your birth and they left this world already. We are also like that. No exception. Ignorance is the base of egoism. Usually you are of the opinion that ‘’I KNOW EVERY THING’’.First of all it is better to know about yourself, then the shallow in you comes out, and then the following questions gradually arise in you. They are:1. Who am I?2. Why I came to this world?3. What has to be achieved by me?If you could get answers to the above questions, then you stop thinking in these terms as below:1. Somebody said about me like this and that.That person did not answer to my enquiry or to my questions. By hook or crook I must my strength to them and teach them a lesson.Our life goes on depending on circumstances. Certain troubles are common in life, but you enjoy the every minute of life given by the Almighty - GOD.So do not go on worrying about minor ailments and spoil your life. The meaning of human being is filling happiness in the mind. Nothing will give trouble to us provided we have strong faith and loving others feeling in us.As everything available in this universe is not sweet, like that all our experiences are not good in nature. Sometimes we may commit mistakes. But have faith in you and think like this:I can face any trouble and GOD is there to look after me.Suppose you never did any mistakes in life and face no troubles, then you would never have pleasant moments in life. Failures and troubles … [Read more...]