Everybody wishes and hopes for successful life and good career as long as he lives in this universe. Success is not an event, but a continuous process. One must aim and dream for higher positions in his career and life. 7 Success secrets: 1. Self-confidence: It is the main stay of all the factors. Have a clear vision about your aim which should be practical, worthy, feasible and have full confidence in your capacity to achieve it under any circumstances. 2. Sincere attempts: Strive sincerely, without any shadow of doubt both mentally and physically. There should not be any lacunae in your efforts. 3. Good beginning: All is well that ends well. So plan it in a good manner, other wise, it (bad planning) plans for your failure. 4. Winning of the minds: First of all, try to win the minds of your parents, the teachers and the elders, who always wish your welfare and show respect and gratitude towards them, for their timely advices and guidance. They are blessings to you in disguise and never underestimate them and seek their valuable experience and guidance in times of need. 5. Have pure thoughts: Remember and keep it in your mind always that impure thoughts do more harm to our body than food, we take. 6. Have helping nature: Helping others means indirectly helping yourself and in the course of time they, who are benefitted by you, render their valuable services to you in your efforts and career. 7. Have plenty of faith in God: Of all the above factors, this is the most important factor. (Atheists may not believe God). My sincere advice is, read the autobiography of … [Read more...]
Formula for success
Every body wants a happy and successful career in life and nobody favors failure. Nobody denies it. The best formula for success-key is “Trying with dedication”. Henry Murre, the famous person recognized it 60 years back and named it “Achievement-Motivation” which is the necessary inspiration for achieving success. In this formula for success, Three things are important. • there is no room for despair • overcome the obstacles with “will-power” • Having enthusiasm for providing inspiration. Always keep it in your mind always that “Fear suppresses the capability”. But the persons having the “Ach-mot” use their capabilities to their full capacity and overcome the fear easily. Be always optimistic and take the responsibilities personally (not depending on others) and also be responsible your -self for the ensuing results, coming out of your own actions. If you show dedication in your work and can take decisions independently, automatically, it becomes a habit for you to do your work or duty efficiently and with full satisfaction. The golden word is: “Where there is a will – there is a way”. … [Read more...]
10 qualities of a successful leader
Everybody wishes to become a successful leader in life. Certainly, we have to welcome and appreciate his ambition. But by mere wish, one cannot become a leader. One should attain these leadership skills to become a good leader either in your personal or work life. 10 leadership qualities: 1. Must be decisive: He should be in position to make timely decisions on his own accord, depending upon the situation, without depending on others. 2. Praising sincerely: He should feel enjoyment by praising other people’s work and also encourage them further to improve their skills. 3. Giving the feedback: Keeping the information channels open and allow them to flow in all ways, so that others (including colleagues and employees) should be in touch with latest knowledge. 4. Willing to join at all times: He should be in a position to join the staff to complete that work at any stage and should not insist that certain tasks are below his dignity. 5. Taking the responsibility: He takes the responsibility, if any untoward incident occurs in the organization. He never passes the buck to others. He also knows pretty well, how to reprimand or fire the staff, if any serious irregularities committed by them. 6. Prefers direct communication: If he wants to tell anything to the followers, He speaks directly to them and rarely opts for paperwork (for communication). 7. Credible and consistent: The leader is always credible and also firm in his approach, regarding any dealing with others. He never behaves unpredictably. 8. Encourage the talent: He likes to promote the talented persons among the staff members, to higher up positions in the administration. He never assumes the notion, that there is better … [Read more...]
How to achieve Success in life?
It is well said: "Success brings people together, and failure makes them orphans". It applies everywhere and to all the circumstances. For example in the competitive exams, very few succeed and the remaining remains unsuccessful. People call the winners as "Lucky fellows", and the losers are called "bad luck people". This is human nature. But, we can say confidently that all men are equal by nature. God has given intelligence equally to all. But success depends on how we use our intelligence. Success is not hereditary. Success is directly proportional to the hard working capacity. Luck is described as: ‘’Hard work is another name for luck. Leave nothing to chance’’, a golden word to be adopted and followed by those who want success in their activities or programmes. Success Quote: "Genius is nothing but 1% percent inspiration and 99% perspiration". But one must keep it in mind that success is not so easy as it appears outwardly. Ask any successful person how he succeeded in his Endeavour, immediately he reveals the troubles he faced before he came out successfully. The winners were relentlessly working hard, while we were sleeping. They read day and nights and sacrificed number of their happy moments and also luxuries. They also never forget, the hardships they underwent during their childhood life. But one should not get discouraged at the time of failure. Most of the successful persons were also one time failured people. Remember that, ‘’Failure is the stepping stone for success’’. Never stop if you fail one or two times in your attempts. But pursue it until you obtain the fruits of success i.e.; the goals in your life. Usually the failed one says the cause of their failure … [Read more...]
How to achieve Success and mental peace
Everyone wants success in his life and it is nothing but part and parcel in our personality development. Mental peace plays a prominent role in achieving the success. Everywhere people like to see the smiling face and serene mind. How to achieve mental peace and success: 1. Fearlessness: It is said that a fearless mind can achieve anything. Where there is no fear, there will be no tension and anxiety and automatically peace prevails there. Then our mind works clearly and is in balanced state. As we know that, balanced mind never makes hasty decisions. Serene Mind acts as a loving mother and it provides you with right answers and suggestions depending upon you requirements and the situations. 2. Constant reading: One can attain knowledge through constant reading and observation. As we know well, “knowledge is strength”. We have to behave according to conditions and situations prevailing there. Timely act brings success, for example, getting the job or passing in the competitive exams. 3. Will power: Persons having this power are usually away from weaknesses like laziness, postponing mentality, etc. They move towards success with a style which is peculiar to them. They never become slaves to bad habits and deeds. They are with sufficient mental strength. 4. Discipline: It comes only with will power. People having this power can face the challenges and problems that occur in life, with confidence and courage. Disciplined persons rarely fail in either professional or personal life. Discipline, perseverance, patience and self-belief are the chief characteristics in personality development. 5. Punctuality: If you wish that your future should be perfect and … [Read more...]
Tips for success at work
Ah, you’ve received the appointment letter and are excited to begin your first job! When you step into the world of work, you’re entering a new phase in your life. The workplace allows you to apply your education and training to your job. Employment helps you earn and take care of yourselves and your dependents. How can you excel at work and nurture your career? Success Tip: Respect the authority: Show respect to everyone at work, particularly the authority. The management cadre of your company and your supervisor has vast knowledge and experience. And, they’re senior to you in age too. Show respect to people in authority and you’ll lay a strong track to drive your career. How can you show respect to the people at the helm of affairs? Begin your first interaction with your supervisor in a work day with a “Good morning, Sir.” Should you need to meet your manager in his office, gently tap the door, even if it’s open, and seek permission to enter. Stand until your manager asks you to take your seat. Attend to meetings, presentations, and others in a prompt way. Always speak in a clearly audible voice, yet not too loud. In your verbal and written communication with your supervisor and others at work, use a formal language. Your body language should convey respect and open the doors for fruitful communication. Last, but not the least, maintain enthusiasm and a cheerful mood.Work Ethics: Always strive to complete your work on-time, within budget, and at the expected quality. If you complete your work sooner than the time allocated to you, seek a new project. Remember, you gain work experience not just by the number of years in a company, but also by the depth and breadth of your work. So, the more work you complete efficiently, the more … [Read more...]
Success quote: Success never comes easy
There is no ladder on which you can step up to success. When it comes to reaching your destination, life throws many tantrums and your path is always filled with thorns. But brave are those who are determined and never halt. They tread their path as if there will be no tomorrow and feel content only after reaching their destination. God is always testing us and strengthening us. He doesn’t give us the way to success but he always gives us the courage to reach our destiny and if we lack determination, he makes sure that he puts our life in such a way that we have the predicaments so that we try to overcome them by strengthening our courage. Most of the people give up while battling with these predicaments which are actually to help us build our courage. But those who triumph over this dilemma emerge as winners. Everybody wants to be a winner but nobody wants to pay the price for it. We keep cribbing how our neighbours, friends, celebrities got the achievements but never we think over what they went through in order to achieve that. We never mull over the circumstances they endured. We just compare their current condition with that of ours and spend our whole life shouting how god was unfair to us, but we never have audacity to start working on our shortcomings and mould our life in such a way that we can achieve success. Success isn’t easy but it’s not that difficult too. If you are determined, nobody can stop you from achieving what you want. Never fear your deficiency. Never let your weakness come in between your way to success. Once you fail, keep trying until you achieve success. Success and failures are within us. You become what you think of yourself. So never think of yourself as a fiasco. Never be disappointed. Make sure that … [Read more...]
Success secrets and quotes
Success quote: “Hard-work is another name for luck (success). Leave nothing to chance”. There is no short-cut route for success and happiness. Failures may come while striving for successful career. But never get disappointed, as failures are the stepping stones for success in life. Carefully observe the tides in the sea-waters. The tide rises itself, whenever it falls. It never gets tired in its attempts. That should be our motto and we should be inspired by the relentless activity of the tides. Success quote: “time and tide wait for none”. If we show the lazy attitude, we can’t reach the other side of the river, from where we stand (that is from this side of the river). Leave the failure there itself, if you come across failure at all, on your way to successful career. Keep your eyes always on your aim and never deviate from it, under any circumstances. The causes of failure are: 1. Fear 2. Negative-attitude or thinking, 3. Away from the keen observation of facts or actual situations, 4. Not realizing our own defects, 5. Unable to overcome stress and strain. 1. Fear: It is the most important cause. If once fear enters into our mind, the door is closed for further opportunities. Fear doesn’t allow our mouth to open and we can’t speak at the proper time to express our feelings. So, sincerely try to keep the fear far away, then automatically, self-confidence enters into our mind. 2. Controlling our thoughts: Avoid negative thoughts and think positively. In the beginning, it may be difficult to control our thinking, but practice it without hesitation ultimately you get positive results, as you know it very well, that “practice makes man perfect”. 3. Be practical and see the … [Read more...]
10 virtues for success in life
No body is born efficient or inefficient. We need to follow the following 10 virtues to achieve success in life and develop good personality. 10 Virtues to lead a happy and successful life: 1. First things first: Before commencing or undertaking any work or project, we have to think twice and should know about the things to be done first of all. For example, we should have to mobilize sufficient finances and able to secure skilled man power, etc. 2. Be proactive: One must be highly active in his daily activities and be moving. Success Quote: "A stagnant water becomes dirty and emits bad odor, where as flowing water is clean and fresh". So moving or active is nature’s phenomena and it doesn’t like laziness. Same applies to us also, if we want to success in life. Hence be prompt in your attempts. 3. Think win and certainly you will win: Positive motivation is a good sign in getting success. You know pretty well that “faith moves mountains”. There is always hope in positive thinking. Any work is well started is equal to half done. So, never get despair and always dream about success and you will be crowned with success. But there should be no lacunae in our efforts. 4. Aim to overcome the obstacles: Certain problems might crop up unexpectedly, viz. scarcity of resources, shortage of men, lack of unity, powerful rivals, ill-health, etc. We should not get disappointed when countered by such problems. But only weaklings give up at this stage. The capable ones analyze the problems carefully, plan accordingly and take suitable steps to get them over. 5. Find out new methods (angles): When things are moving at a normal pace in an organization, there is scope for improvement. Therefore, one should take … [Read more...]
Steps to Success: Communication skills
Communication is an art. Now a day, communication skills are playing and vital role in every walk of life and it helps you to improve your personality in public relations. Good communication leads to success in every programme which you undertake in your day to day activities. Communication has two components: 1. Expression 2. Listening. Communication is given a paramount importance in the team work and to build better interpersonal relations either at the working place, in any public places, in any gatherings or in get- together parties. Many companies and institutions are organizing seminars and training camps, for improving the communication skills of their employees. But, most of the times, these efforts are not yielding expected results, as they are giving importance to expression only, rather than listening which is not to be neglected at all.In this competitive world, no doubt, your word has got a magic power in human relations, as it creates either friendship or enmity among you and your friends. Every word coming from our mouth acts as a “bridge” in enhancing and creating the (new) relationship. Speech techniques: 1. Try to speak depending upon the surrounding situations and prevailing conditions. 2. Have confidence in yourself and speak firmly and confidently in clear terms. 3. Better speaking ability provides job opportunities like -in teaching profession, anchoring, TV, reporting, etc. 4. If situation demands, never hesitate to speak, and don’t be under the wrong impression that others may pass adverse comments against your way of talking. Don’t forget that, “practice makes man perfect”. 5. Try to improve your vocabulary and that gives good command over the language. … [Read more...]
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