1. One has to possess these skills as you go up in any Career for success. 2. These are the skills that help Family Life Happier 3. This leads to-Improved Social Life too. Proceed to know how to improve people skill to a greater ability: 1. Skills as to how to Talk to people, seem to give Importance to people. 2. Human is a being, has emotion factor. It is important and varied. Better, know the nature of people. 3. Understand people and accept them as they are… How important, do you know five senses of human beings: Hearing, Seeing, Smell, Taste and Touch. Permutation and Combination of above senses has Impact on the following aspects: 1. Learning process 2. Memory Retention 3. Recalling memory. 1. Out of what we just READ the information preserved is only 10% 2. Out of What we just HEAR (another sense) the information saved is only 20% 3. Out of what we SEE, the information retained is about 30% 4. Out what we SEE and HEAR (reading loudly), the Information maintained is about 50% 5. Out of what we TALK and what we want to TELL (Read & write/ practice), we can conserve around 70% of whole information. 6. Out of what we SAY what we want TO DO and DO that (read discuss and absorb), we keep 90% of Information in our memory and recall. A. Talk and know how to become an interesting speaker. B. Learn to thank when you want to show your gratitude and appreciation. People expect and deserve it. C. Respect (admiration and pride with humility) each other determines how we conduct and behave each other. D. Do not budge to Obligation and accept things on its face … [Read more...]
How to live happily?
In the present age, happiness has become synonymous with material success. It has become so encompassing that people spend most of their time as well as expend a considerable amount of their physical and mental energy in trying to achieve it. Sadly, not many people realize that this is not just a phenomenon of modern day living, but a major degenerative disease in their lives. In an effort to achieve our goals, we forget that the mind and body are not completely suited to cope with such stress and strain. Happiness is not synonymous with material fulfillments of worldly desires but actually is the complete freedom from this. The mind is at peace only when it is free from the carving for material and personal gains. The concept of stress is born out of this dilemma. In pursuit of attaining happiness along with materialistic goals, one is confronted with a situation that needs harmony. It is the discrepancy between the desires and their fulfillment that throws one out of harmony with the environment.The feeling of frustration, fear and anxiety born out of this situation is recognized as stress. To achieve that elusive harmony man has renewed his interest in the philosophy of meditation. Meditation, worldwide, is recognized as a means to free one from fear and frustrations. It gives an inner strength which gradually leads to a harmonious existence. What we need to know and learn is how to use this mind to improve our lives. Meditation is the key which help us to and awaken the sleeping mind and bring it into a state of consciousness. The philosophy of meditation is entrenched in the belief: “One should not search for harmony in the environment or the external world. This search should instead, be concentrated within the … [Read more...]
Success quote: Success never comes easy
There is no ladder on which you can step up to success. When it comes to reaching your destination, life throws many tantrums and your path is always filled with thorns. But brave are those who are determined and never halt. They tread their path as if there will be no tomorrow and feel content only after reaching their destination. God is always testing us and strengthening us. He doesn’t give us the way to success but he always gives us the courage to reach our destiny and if we lack determination, he makes sure that he puts our life in such a way that we have the predicaments so that we try to overcome them by strengthening our courage. Most of the people give up while battling with these predicaments which are actually to help us build our courage. But those who triumph over this dilemma emerge as winners. Everybody wants to be a winner but nobody wants to pay the price for it. We keep cribbing how our neighbours, friends, celebrities got the achievements but never we think over what they went through in order to achieve that. We never mull over the circumstances they endured. We just compare their current condition with that of ours and spend our whole life shouting how god was unfair to us, but we never have audacity to start working on our shortcomings and mould our life in such a way that we can achieve success. Success isn’t easy but it’s not that difficult too. If you are determined, nobody can stop you from achieving what you want. Never fear your deficiency. Never let your weakness come in between your way to success. Once you fail, keep trying until you achieve success. Success and failures are within us. You become what you think of yourself. So never think of yourself as a fiasco. Never be disappointed. Make sure that … [Read more...]
Essential Public Speaking Skills
Public speaking is the process of speaking to a group of people in a structured, deliberate manner intended to inform, influence, or entertain the listeners. Public speaking within a group of people is a difficult activity. Because listeners have better access to information since the internet became common place, audiences expect more content from speakers today. If you would rather spend your time preparing your content than reading a book on public speaking, this is an article especially for you. Starting Your Speech: In modern world, Speech tends to be much less formal than they were twenty years ago. Most audience these days prefers a relatively informal approach. However, there is a certain structure to the opening of a Speech that you should observe. • Get people's attention and build rapport• Welcome them• Introduce yourself• State the purpose of your Speech• State how you want to deal with questions Make Friends from the Audience: When you stand up in front of that audience, you’re going to be really nervous. Poor speakers pay little or no attention to their audience as people. Big mistake!! If you can see your audience as a group of individuals, you’ll be much more likely to connect with those individuals. Start looking around your audience. Pick out ‘friends’ all round the room. If you see an ‘impress me’ person and get discouraged, switch your view back to one of your ‘friend’. Once you are aware that there are people in your audience who want you to succeed, you’ll be much more likely to succeed. Voice Modulation: Microphones, if used effectively will be a great tool for Voice Modulation. Very few of us use them … [Read more...]
16 steps for personality development
Some aspects of one’s personality can be genetic, inherited from parents. Self development is taking personal responsibility for one's own learning and development through a process of assessment, reflection and taking self improvement action. 16 Steps to develop a good personality: . 1. Have a personal aim in life. 2. Assessing personal skills & Interest as it is now. 3. Maintaining a learning log (or) diary of reactions to various live circumstances to analyse the experience 4. Develop personal plan to identify learning needs, based on the above experiences. 5. If required, take the help of an honest well wisher, to give constructive criticism and advice, for improvement. 6. Have a reading habit to update knowledge. Can depend on published articles. 7. Cultivate a habit of doing it immediately without procrastination. 8. Learn to like the things that need to be done. 9. Continually updating the skills and knowledge in the chosen field 10. Develop an attitude of gratitude. 11. Get into a continuous & conscious education programme 12. Stay away from negative influences 13. Start your day with a positive attitude 14. The above will build a positive self esteem 15. Maintain a health body and healthy mind. 16. Develop a positive approach to live situations. By: K.R. Jayaprakash. … [Read more...]
Success secrets and quotes
Success quote: “Hard-work is another name for luck (success). Leave nothing to chance”. There is no short-cut route for success and happiness. Failures may come while striving for successful career. But never get disappointed, as failures are the stepping stones for success in life. Carefully observe the tides in the sea-waters. The tide rises itself, whenever it falls. It never gets tired in its attempts. That should be our motto and we should be inspired by the relentless activity of the tides. Success quote: “time and tide wait for none”. If we show the lazy attitude, we can’t reach the other side of the river, from where we stand (that is from this side of the river). Leave the failure there itself, if you come across failure at all, on your way to successful career. Keep your eyes always on your aim and never deviate from it, under any circumstances. The causes of failure are: 1. Fear 2. Negative-attitude or thinking, 3. Away from the keen observation of facts or actual situations, 4. Not realizing our own defects, 5. Unable to overcome stress and strain. 1. Fear: It is the most important cause. If once fear enters into our mind, the door is closed for further opportunities. Fear doesn’t allow our mouth to open and we can’t speak at the proper time to express our feelings. So, sincerely try to keep the fear far away, then automatically, self-confidence enters into our mind. 2. Controlling our thoughts: Avoid negative thoughts and think positively. In the beginning, it may be difficult to control our thinking, but practice it without hesitation ultimately you get positive results, as you know it very well, that “practice makes man perfect”. 3. Be practical and see the … [Read more...]
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