How to overcome inferiority complex – 2?

25 to 30% of people are suffering from inferiority complex and the main thing is they feel hesitant to start any work out of fear, thinking that others might think in another way. Often they feel shyness and dejected, degrade themselves and do not enjoy their rights even at the minimum level.

Behavior of people with Inferiority complex:

1. They hesitate to speak out of fear that other might misunderstand them, even though they got conversational skills.

2. They get their hair-cutting neatly, but still feel shyness and often wear hat to cover their heads, thinking that others might laugh at them.

3. They take it very easily even when the newly acquainted persons also dare to crack jokes against them (they don’t protest).

4. They eat calmly the dish supplied in a hotel even if it is stale, because they think that server might feel offended if they make any adverse comments against the preparation.

5. They eat beyond their limits and suffer from stomach upset whenever they go out for any dinner under obligation.

6. They lend their important books, articles, etc. to friends for few days under obligation and feel tension, until they are returned.

7. They fall an easy prey to realtors and fake financial institutions, become members and burn their fingers.

8. They drink (alcohol) and eat items of junk foods in parties, much against their wish, out of obligation.

9. They go out to stand even near a lavatory being unable to withstand smell of smoking from a co-passenger in a railway compartment, instead openly objecting to the smoking.

10. They hesitate to wear new dresses with suits and shoes fearing that others might find them gaudy and make unnecessary comments.

11. They often get angry with family members, if they asked to do a particular thing or to meet a certain person, as they are lazy and wish to be left alone.

12. Similarly, there are girls also going to movies, hotels, etc. with boys, just because they can’t displease others. Such things may lead to their ruin in the long run.

We can quote many more such type of examples. It was reported by the psychologists that people of the above cited mentalities must have been pampered by their mothers and put to regimentation by their fathers, while they were young.

For example parents used to suggest them like, “do this or do that, don’t wear this dress or that colored suit’’, etc. Thus they lost their individuality and general thinking power and become habituated to depend upon others, even after marriage.

How to overcome Inferiority Complex?

1. First of all they, they have to develop strong determination, to change their above mentality.

2. Initially, they require a little initiative, be daring and should give up their inhibition.

3. They should repeatedly remind themselves that they need not afraid of any body.

4. They should develop positive thinking and try to express their views, if they do not like any thing.

5. Everyone is unique in this world, so one should have his own individuality.

So let us start to lead a new way of life, from this moment onwards, keeping inhibition aside for go.

Source: Master Mind.