Worry is an enemy of your life and also a big hindrance to your personality development. It is worry, which in the long run, spoils our life, affects our personality development and also drives us to ruins. This is the quote in "Twelth Night" - “I am sure care is an enemy to your life”. Here care means “worry”. Mahatma Gandhi rightly said, “There is nothing that wastes the body like worry”. The usual causes of worry are: Problems that cause worry are as different as how people react to problems. Generally people with positive thinking can face problems effectively than people with negative mindset. That’s why problem solvers rose quickly to top positions in companies. We should not think about problems but should focus our energy on how to solve them. Effects of worry on the body: 1. Hyperacidity in the stomach: The golden saying is “If you weep, your stomach weeps”. Weeping stimulates the nerves of the stomach, there by more secretion of hydrochloric is produced, which in turn damages (eats) the stomach (gastric) walls, leading to “peptic ulcer”. 2. Worry causes stress and strain: Due to constant stress, the brain and nerves have to bear the brunt the person suffer from –high blood pressure ,which leads to heart strokes and brain strokes ( paralysis). “What is this life with full of care, we have no time to stand and stare”. How overcome worry and be happy? Two types of remedies are available: 1. Scientifically: If you have strong will power and self-confidence, you can easily overcome the worry. As per the great Napoleon (emperor of France), “Nothing is impossible to human beings”. As H. w. Longfellow wrote, “The cares they infest the … [Read more...]
Complex Personalities and their behavior
The man’s nature, behavior, values, opinions, goals and achievements in life depend on the self-confidence only. No other thing influences the life such effectively, as self- confidence. Man should have confidence in his intellectual powers and energies. The individual who doesn’t believe and respect himself, can’t believe the surrounding society also. He can’t live happily and also not able to face the troubles confidently. Persons having full self-confidence exhibit following signs: 1. They behave with responsibility and we can safely depend on them. 2. They keep their promises under any circumstances. 3. They are Honest and also have strong perseverance in doing any work. 4. Give importance to moral values. 5. Never hesitate to learn a new thing. 6. Strive sincerely to improve personally and also try their level best to preserve their individuality. 7. They express their opinions freely and won’t mind even if others oppose their views. 8. Have plenty of creativity in them. 9. Treat both the success and defeat as a part of life and won’t afraid of them and moreover lessons from them and proceed further in life. 10. Never reject the praises of others if they do them honestly. 11. They are not extraordinary and exhibit the natural human feelings like, anger, sorrow, pain, etc. along with happiness. 12. They try to render help to the society within their limits and capacities. 13. Others treat them as their role models. 14. The seed of self-confidence in them is seen since their childhood itself and the incidents that occur during their childhood and the society also help to grow the confidence in them. Persons suffering from inferiority complex show following characteristics: 1. They can’t mingle … [Read more...]
6 simple steps to attain Success
We always try to succeed in whatever we do. No one loves failures in life even though failure is inevitable some times. Everyone loves success and hates defeat. Success enhances your personality and profile in society. But how to achieve success in life? 6 Simple things to achieve success in life: 1. Promises to be kept: Under any circumstances, keep the promises given to others by you and also the self -given (made) promises, that is the promises given by you to yourself. First of all, make small promises and try to keep them. Later on, gradually switch over to big promises and fulfill them. Automatically, people develop confidence in you. 2. Do good things only: Especially, it helps you, while you are in severe depression. Give helping hand to your friends and neighbors, that removes depression and provides you with full of mental peace (relaxation) because it brings out the inherent humanity in you. Ex. while you are travelling in a city bus, offer your seat to a standing old man or a sick person. It boosts your morale and self-respect. If you receive any help from others, write a letter to them, expressing you gratitude, which make them feel happy. 3. Never blame yourself: “To make err is human”. If you did any wrong deed by mistake, do not go on brooding over it and do not blame yourself. Let resolve yourself “not to do that wrong again”, the matter ends there. Be fresh and happy. Blaming yourself lowers your self confidence level. 4. Be honest: As per the proverb “honesty always pays”. In the initial stages, it seems very difficult to be honest, but, not impossible. But, be honest in your every deed. As the world famous leader Napoleon said “nothing is impossible in this … [Read more...]
Tips to improve public relations
Man is a social animal and he can’t live alone in the society, hence he should observe some norms while dealing with his neighbors and/or at the working place. Good public relationships improve your life and enhance life productivity. Maintaining good relations is an important part of personality development. 16 tips to improve public relations: 1. Never exhibit dominating mentality and egoism is hindrance to our progress in our career. 2. Never utter anything irresponsibly and always keep in mind the consequences after uttering any wrong word. 3. In any affair or quarrel, have patience and tactics in dealing with that situation. 4. Don’t be under the impression that whatever you say is correct or whatever you do is perfect. You can never win through arguments. Arguments only ruin crucial relationships. 5. Eschew the narrow mindedness and always be broad minded. Always be open to criticism and new ideas. 6. First of all, verify the facts in whatever you listen, (remember there may be certain lies), before passing any adverse comments against anyone. 7. Never encourage rumors, as they spread like wild fire, causing irreversible damage to the prestige of others in the society. Rumors travel faster than the truth. 8. Abhor the greediness, but develop the noble quality of charity. 9. Don’t believe everything that comes to your ear, from other and outward sources. Just listen to that and apply your own intelligence and judgment. 10. Never try to see everything (especially small) in magnified lenses. Try to see through the eyes of others. 11. Don’t be stubborn but have some flexibility while dealing with settlements with others. 12. Smile before … [Read more...]
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