Many of us suffer from depression, at any time in our life, which may be in varying intensity- from mild to serious types. Depression is nothing but loosing interest or enthusiasm in life. There are so many causes or reasons for this type of mental agony.
Suicide- causes:
1. When a person looses his property in business.
2. When one is rejected or cheated by, his or her love or lover.
3. When a person is suffering from a dreadful diseases like-cancer, HIV/AIDS etc.
4. When a person is not able to secure a rank in the competitive test, thereby not able to get a job, or actually fails in the exam.
5. When one is neglected by his or her family members, including the children.
6. When one problem is aggravated with additional problems.
7. When a person with bodily disorder is jeered at by the people around.
8. when one is subjected to meaningless phobias or anxiety, etc.
9. When others in the past, committed suicide, under similar circumstances.
10. Often many women develop depression after giving birth to a child (during postpartum period), due to imbalances in levels of progesterone and estrogen hormones.
11. When he or she is suffering from psychiatric problems and other sexual disorders.
12. When a nearest relative dies or there is a death of any family member occurs.
13. When a higher officer scolds his assistant without assigning any valid reason, he develops depression.
14. Whenever, a person does not get nutritious or balanced diet, he may develop depression.
15. Occasionally, normal menstrual cycle aggravates the depression, if already present in a woman.
16. Depression runs in some families as a hereditary /genetic trait.
17. Staying alone in cities and not showing interest in getting married also causes depression especially in the youth now a day.
Signs and symptoms of Suicide mentality:
Suicide-tendency is more common in women, (may be due to they are soft –corner in nature) when compared to men. Moreover most of the males take many things in life very lightly.
1. Spend sleepless nights, thinking constantly.
2. Show no interest in food.
3. Either talk too much or keep absolute silence.
3. Write lengthy letters and never post them to any body.
4. Keep away from the friends or relatives, whom they like very much.
5. Often speak philosophically.
6. Showing lack of interest in the activities dearer to them earlier.
7. They give away their valuable articles in charity.
8. Collect different types of tablets and store them in secret.
9. Show lack of self-confidence and show displeasure and dismay.
10. They are always of the opinion that their life is waste.
Management of the case (patient):
1. As far as possible, he is not left alone.
2. He has to take balanced diet, even if he is not having sufficient appetite.
3. It is well and good, if the depressed person shared his feelings with his close friends.
4. Exercise is good for them, as it releases endorphins which elate the mood of the patient. Walking is the suitable exercise for this type of persons.
5. He may be under the false impression that depression is incurable, but the family members or friends have to enlighten him about the available latest treatment.
6. He should be taken to a psychiatrist for proper counseling and special treatment with antidepressant drugs. It is good to keep the patient under his care for a certain period of time.
Please share your experience with suicide cases.
i don’t have any intest in my life becuse every one is neglecting me in many reasons at home office friends, and im not sound in financial not able to study well i failed in subject in many time but i would like to be gental man but my main is not consentrating in many activitis i felt neglect then i ll suffer for what i lost pls suggest me how to be sucess in life…………
Sir, please be patient. Try to set one goal and concentrate on one subject which interests you. Please cultivate one good hobby. You can definitely find one hobby who gives you happiness. You can find success only when you do things which give you happiness. You can definitely find one.
Hi Sir, thank you very much for suggestion I have one more question that I’m very week in mental I ll not now that, who will cheat me and how the will cheat me I ll be in blank then I ll realize later, and some time I’m trying to avoid people for some reason but I’m not able to control my self again I ll go wrong with same person I feel that if I avoid them they will not come back to me again I have fear but I fail to handle them I’m facing this problem from log time I tray to read book which i’m not able complet my education , I ll seat and read book suddenly I ll remember some thing I will stop study and start thinking unnecessary thing which I can’t comeout of that matter for study, I feel guiltiness while talking with people I give more respect to others but nobody give respect to me I ll be rejected from them then I will be upset. How can I come out for this matter , I don’t have confident in me please suggest I need your guidance to improve my personality development I read your web site I felt very happy really very good suggestion u have given sir please help to come out of this matter.
please suggest sir,
Sir, please read good books like how to win friends, power of positive thinking and 7 habits of highly effective people. Never think negatively about anything. Be positive. Set specific goal and concentrate.